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Christmas preparation – Your presents – 9 December 2009

 

Having sat with my children this evening as they browsed catalogues and reeled off lists, we talked about the fact they really do not need anything.  They already have all that they require – a home, food, a family, love, as well as plenty to entertain and educate them.  They need nothing really, and yet we still go on spending and providing new things.  We have talked often over the last few months about how we should focus more on the needs of those who have nothing, like  their brothers and sisters at Casa Reom, and think less about what we would LIKE and more about what those children NEED.

 

Can what you give this Christmas make a difference? Be challenged to think carefully about what you buy, if you still have gifts to purchase, and consider if you could buy something that could really make a difference rather than just bringing a short lived smile.  Giving alternative gifts is one way to do this, and I find it always gives me such joy to give something that I know will positively impact on somebody’s life for a long time to come.  At first it was a strange concept to not buy a gift but instead to send bricks or goats or loo seats, but now it is far more accepted, and ethical gifts like this really are a gift for life and not just for Christmas.  Even if you have already bought all of your gifts, why not add one more to the list, and buy something that will make a difference to somebody you’ve not even met – a gift for life.  There are Casa Reom gift certificates available, as well as other charities such as Oxfam who provide many ideas for alternative gifts.  Why not check them out today and give a gift to make a difference.

 

Lord, thank you that I need for nothing, as you are a God who is faithful and provides. Lead me to a way where I can make a difference this Christmas, and make my gifts work to your glory and to the benefit of those who are truly in need. Amen.

 


Corinne Mason, 09/12/2009

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Stuart Rodger (Guest)09/12/2009 06:39
Hi Corinne,
I think you have the message the wrong way around here, and I think it's important that influential people like you put it out in the proper way, otherwise this will always be a source of cynicism and friction.
Gifts aren't meant to be given in order to "always gives me (the giver)such joy" (your words) - instead gifts ought to be given in order to "always give YOU [the recipient] such joy".

Corinne, you should suggest NOT that people "give" a Casa Reom gift certificate - you should instead suggest that people "ask to RECEIVE" a Casa Reom gift certificate.
I remember well the year that one of my relatives gave everyone an oxfam (or similar) gift certificate. We all walked away with nothing, while she walked away with a bunch of lovely presents from each of us. Not all in the family are Christians and the cynicism about this outcome was palpable. My relative was the only one in the room who hadn't had to agonise over what would best please the other people in the room. The present she gave us was really a present for HER - "it gave HER such joy" and as an added benefit it gave HER no Christmass shopping trouble.
To make this right I would love to see you in a later devotional this week republish your two middle sentences as :
"Asking to be given an alternative gift is one way to do this, and I find it always gives me such joy to receive the confirmation that something that I know will positively impact on somebody’s life for a long time to come has been given to them on my behalf. At first it was a strange concept to not receive a gift but instead to hear about someone else receiving bricks or goats or loo seats, but now it is far more accepted by me as being a great present to give me, and ethical gifts like this really are a gift for life and not just for Christmas"

My family is agreeing to do this this year - and it is the receivers who will ask for the certificate as being a present they would like to receive.
Tim Norman09/12/2009 10:35
Stuart - an interesting point. It is true that receiving gives the recipient joy, but it is also true that this in turn gives the giver joy. 'Alternative' ethical gifts are also a great option
Stuart Rodger (Guest)10/12/2009 07:13
Yes, I just don't like the feel of "Hey, great news, I've decided to give your Christmas present to someone else instead".

I think it works far better as "Hey, I'd like you to give my present to someone else instead please", and acts as a better role model this way.

The certificates themselves are a terrific idea of course, and the more of them that are given the better place the world will be.

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